(2) she said she would want us to be friends You don't owe this person any . She didn't delete you from social media because she was mad at you, because she hated you for what you did to her. , At the end happened all as what Apollonia said. If someone has stopped talking to you but is still following you, it could be that they're not ready to talk to you yet. She feels devastated, insulted, and ashamed. After that I wrote her a long letter I cant be with her like that. That lasted 4 months but I didnt give up. Best, . 3. So I told her dont want you to disturbed with my stories she said oh no come on been telling you about me so I told her at night well talk which we couldnt because she was busy. Apollonias team. But i still have some questions, specifically on the 4 main points that you explained above. Im praying that Ill get better at reading those signs in the future. If you're still following your ex on IG, then it's possible they're posting 24/7 in order to get your attention. After a while she became one of the bosses, a manager. I know I missed my chance and I screwed the situation myself. And sometimes Ive miss read her signs, through her words and body language. But she also still looks at my Instagram profile and stories and follows me, after I decided to unfollow her because of how I'm feeling. 4. Not because i was affraid but because i was still cautios regarding the whole context. If she needs the support then support her but also show her that you will give her personal space and not become overbearing. She said, I will try to. Ive been married, cheated on and divorced many years ago now. Assuming this is what you want then you may try to contact your girl and see if things can't get back. You may have been trying harder than her and this does not have to happen in relationships. They're just likes, she probably still considers your a friend. When she saw it, she turned bright red again, But anytime Id work up the courage to ask her out, she pushed me away. This is a transformational 3-month experience with Apollonia to transition your dating and relationship life. Anyway, out of the blue, she all of a sudden stopped texting me. I will never be the prize of any woman, as I never saw any woman sexually wanting me at my whole life. In this blog, I am going to give you some techniques but I will also give you some insight, as a woman, as to why this is happening. There are women out there that will use you for attention and want you to stick around so they will breadcrumb you here and there and have you when they want you. I finally asked her what was up. You have to pace yourself and not put a woman on a pedestal. Am trying to let go but not sure if i can cope, i just feel so in love with her. I get it. Hi There! Its sad, lonely and often painful to keep my [normal human] feelings inside, but I have no choice this is the cold hard reality for men like me who are incapable of being sexually attractive to any woman. I find it weird to ghost someone when the breakup was civil. #3 She is no longer interested in you. But I still have some concerns about the other 3 reasons that you explained, for instance a girl rejects a guy because he is too much into her than she is to him, this makes him less desirable. He wants the attention. I approached this girl and she told me shes already made her mind with a different guy and yet she keeps on fetching her problems for me to solve and all the time she keeps on telling me shes already in love with someone else and pretend like were dating..what should I do..?? Best, (Anne punches him across the face with tears in her eyes, knocking his crown away. Apollonia, Ive proposed to a girl for about 16months and shes saying she wont date. When we start getting attached to someone then we are preventing our best selves from showing up. But theres better options out there. In this article, we will talk about four possible reasons why your ex may be angry with you, even though they broke up with you. Respect her decision and move on. What should i do in this situation? If you want to know why your ex still follows you on social media, you must understand that dumpees and dumpers follow or keep following their exes for slightly different reasons. Women are attracted to the inner confidence of a man and I talk about how to get out of the friend zone anymore in my product here! Either way, it sounds like we were missing the biggest sign she actually told you she doesnt want to date. I come back later and buy the soda, I have to go now. I told her that we will see, and that i am pretty confident. It should only be used for the right reasons. What does it mean? Doesnt matter how healthy I am. But , I will be honest and you may want to tell readers to be kind with this new power they will now wield. She may sit down around you, for example, and she may even bring you gifts. 7 Reasons Why! 10. Need opinions. To test my responses to them. 2. Hope this helps. We dated for 2yrs and just this February 2020,she told me she is not interested. If your friend suddenly stops talking to you, they may simply be taking time to recharge as a means of self-care. For more material from Apollonia you can head to https://www.apolloniaponti.com/products/ Hi Adamas, We greatly appreciate your feedback on this article. Dont look at them, approach them, talk to them, and for heavens sake dont date or marry them. Guy started to message one of her friend to find out, I should ignore her But i really dont know she like me or not after her message. Part of re-attraction is understanding that you are not attached to an outcome and we are not obsessing over one desire. But I couldnt confessed all this face to face, I was afraid. so after the next 5 days she texted me and ask my condition, what does it mean. There are plenty of scenarios where a woman will reject you and still try to get attention from you and youre left thinking, Should I ignore her? If youre in a situation where you guys work together or perhaps go to the same gym, you may not be able to ignore her, so the key here is to show her that you are not going to play her games! You made some great points about, holding on to, my dignity, integrity, and also I can live with you or without you attitude. I will see her at work on Friday, and we are due to have some works drinks in a couple of weeks time. She then tells me thst she is just ultra shy and struggles. I know how frustrating this can be. It goes something like this: You have a few dates, then suddenly the communication becomes infrequent or he never texts you back. Listining to him answering question and so on. I was so frustrated and I decided stop talking to her but with this information, I now know what to do and if any additional information is available you can share again. I have Ben reading your advice. 1. Im glad you are here. Dont give them any reason to do this. I was far from my former neediness. I had been seeing this great girl for just over a month but things had gotten flaky. Its best to completely ignore all women anyway. The title of your blog says She rejected me but still acts intetested. and what if he doesnt? I will never lie to her about that or hide it from her. If any of these tips resonated with you, I encourage you to follow some of the tips that I have talked on how to move forward. Its an ego boost. When a man is unsure about how a woman feels about him, he'll pull back and wait and see what happens. I hope you mean a woman. Awesome! (3) at one point she said she has a boyfriend So, I read till the end! This blog was a message from the heavens. She's losing interest. talking about all kinds of things, and wants me to take her to lunch all the time. Around this time I realized her friends were making contact with me. From what I know or read about, is that if a woman rejects a man, she also ignores him. If she does nothing - then that too must be a sign she does not like him or is not interested in his sort-of behavior. When you date a woman, you might think that she is the best option youve ever had, but women can feel this if you treat her as though youve never had a girl like her before. I have never expressed sexual interest in any woman for this reason I make sure to keep my desires to myself no matter how strong they are. I have a feeling you would really enjoy my products. Sohelp me? She stop talking to you because you do Uber, na once u rush come create threat, I swear na una dy FVK UP big time. My solution was accepting this fate and living as happy as possible the rest of my life without sex or romance, just with my family, friends, job, trips and other kinds of fun, sincerely thanking God for every day of my life He gives me. He doesnt have his own opinion, hes too nice, there is no challenge, and he is always doing everything the woman wants and not showing her that he is ok with her or ok without her. Apollonia. Best, Team Apollonia, Thx I like this girl and I was trying to hard im going to trust in myself and stay true to myself, Im happy to hear that the blog helped you Julius! Hi apollonia your blog was excellent, i have read it at the right time .when i was in btech 1st year i saw a beautiful girl in my college and we started seeing each other whenever we have seminar she would turn and see me atleast 20 times and even at the buses she used to gaze me .so one day she was overseeing me and my emotional feelings got triggered.so that day i went and proposed her but she rejected me.i accepted it.all of a sudden she stopped seeing me and started ignoring me so i also pretended that i doesnt really care.but after 2 months she started again seeing afterwards my feeling became so high that i couldnt sleep .i was just thinking about her the whole day.so i wrote a beautiful poem with the title i love you for her .each and every guy who read my poem loved it.so i thought she will accept me .so i gave that poem to her but in return she replied your a fuckin creature ,what do you think about yourself and much more .so i was breakdown to such extent that i went into depression and suffering from insomia bipolar e.t.c.now i am in btech third year already geeting suicidal thoughts but that is not the issue she is again started seeing me.what should i do? Is it possible I might come on as too intense whenever Im dealing with a woman I like to know? I know she didnt liked that, and she backed off a little for a while. She might text you, flirt with you, or even intentionally lead you on and leave you feeling extremely frustrated. Youd be a fool to give it to her, but at least shed be doing the right and honest thing. I would really suggest going slow and getting to know someone, and when someone tells you about themselves, listen. We finally kissed and said we are together but in next days she was afraid to get more intimate with me so she cancelled my invitation before my trip. All Rights Reserved. Invitations to all their lady and family functionsSo Coach from a womens perspective what does all this mean? In this situation right now and I must tell you its so annoying because shes intentionally playing hide and seek in the relationship based on her selfish gains and I believe she thought shes smart. After a while the womens friend become friendly to him. He was initiating majority of the contact either through a text message or snap chat in the morning and conversation would continue off/on throughout the day. Dont continue to pour salt on a wound that isnt healed if you know what I mean. She replied why you wanna know more about me? If this is you, dont worry because I will tell you how to fix it further along with this blog. Please Apollonia what should I do. why making this long progress without any reason? Otherwise, you can block 'em. maybe you might have some more explanation about that. (2) she said she would want us to be friends. I would start dating other women and not give her any attention. Really weird. I hope this blog helped and best of luck to you with everything! 7 Reasons Why! Best, friend often start to talk with him. DR! A TODAY Show guest, Whitney Cummings, has made NSFW comments during her live interview on the show. 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